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So, you are ready to pop the question and is looking for an engagement ring. There must be many questions going through your mind right now. How much should you spend on an engagement ring? how do you make sure you are buying the right engagement ring? Also, how can you save money on your engagement ring because it’s not exactly cheap?
Should you have an open discussion with your girlfriend about engagement ring before proposing?
Isn’t wedding proposal supposed to be a surprise just like what we see in the movies?
You might ask, “Gladice, if I talked to my girlfriend about engagement rings, then there would be no surprise at all. “
I understand how you feel because we have all been conditioned to think that way.
But, just because you ask your girlfriend for her opinion on engagement ring before actually proposing DOESN’T mean that she won’t get a surprise wedding proposal.
She still doesn’t know when exactly and how exactly you are going to propose.
However, what she does know is that she will definitely get an engagement ring that she likes.
Okay, here’s another thing you should know about women.
We like it that you want to ask us what we think because it shows that you value our opinions.
Deep inside, what we really don’t want is that you buy an engagement ring that we don’t like.
So, if you decide to talk to your girlfriend about engagement ring, how do you actually start the conversation?
First of all, you need to make sure that you and your girlfriend are both on the same page about taking the relationship to the next level.
That means you’ve already talked about getting married before.
Because you want to prevent the most dreadable situation where your girlfriend doesn’t feel that you two are not there yet when you ask her to marry you.
Now, if you are ready to have the talk, what exactly do you say to your girlfriend?
Okay, here is something that you can say without making the whole thing awkward:
“Babe, there is something that I want to ask you for your opinion. Do you think you are free to talk tonight at my place?”
After your girlfriend has arrived at your place, here’s how to bring up the topic of engagement ring:
“Babe, you know that we have talked about how we wanted to start a life together. I want you to know that I am serious about what I said before. I’m actually looking for an engagement ring right now, and I really want to get one that you will like. So, can I ask you for your help on this?”
This not only shows that you really care about getting a ring that she likes, but it also shows that you respect your girlfriend’s opinion.
Now, what kind of questions do you need to ask your girlfriend about the engagement ring?